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[14 Sep 2007|05:24pm]

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! [31 Jan 2007|08:47pm]

[ mood | confused ]

i have a dilemma, and i'm happy to find such a group on livejournal because my friends are being USELESS lol.

there's this reallly cute boy. i invited him to my birthday dinner, when i barely knew him haha. he bought me my favorite composer (classical music lol) and his favorite composer lol, so i thought that was really cute and thoughtful. but now we've been talking alot more, and i guess it's time to tell him but i am so frustrated of telling him that i do like him. i really do want to ask him out but i need to think of a really cute  way. and it doesn't help that valentine's day is coming up!

so basically, what is the cutest way you've asked a guy out?

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girly sit. [23 Sep 2006|12:15pm]

so there's this guy joe i've been very "close" with for about 7 months. i've always wanted him to be my boyfriend, but a few months ago we talked about it and he said he couldn't have a relationship at that time. but now it's like every time we hang out, we get closer and closer. he's always taking me out to eat, and going to the movies- it was never like this the first few months, which is a good thing. plus, we don't hook up with other people.

now the problem is, i met this guy mike last week, and me and him we actually knew each other in high school, we just got re-acquainted. but i'm sort of interested in him. he's such a sweet heart, but i donno if he's just into hooking up, or a relationship. i remember a convo we had and he said something about just having fun.

i just don't really know what i should do. should i stay with joe, who treats me well but doesn't want to be with me -- or should i go for mike who's the sweetest guy and might be interested in a relationship ?

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[01 Sep 2006|10:29pm]

basically situation: me and best friend end up having drunken sex the night before he goes on a 5 week independ studies group trip to China where I don't get to contact him.
I love him, he 'loved' me. 
he wasn't single.
This converrsation was the night before school started in the wee hours of the week before last Wednesday morning IE 4:30 is when it ended..I was way stressed and he signed on since he goes to boarding school in Austin so he didn't start til this last Wednesday..and I was up trying frantically to finish my AP World History summer assignment..
I am closer to this guy than anyone I know..and I love him more than anything..romantically and just as a friend. We had messed around before...but never gone this far...
He is that one friend that I go to for everything..
and now we aren't talking.
At all..
Before this whole disaster happened I would talk to him nearly if not ever day. 
Now I don't know what to do..
I haven't tried calling//messaging him since...
should i?
I still am really good friends with his best friend, david, and he has really been trying to help..but...it's not like ellis..at all.
Should i just 'forget' about him...
Talk to him and act like it never happened..
Just not talk to him and then randomly send him a birthday gift on his birthday...[[not til december.]
this is that convo..not neccessary...but...it may help you give advice I guess.

x-posted advice4teens
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[26 Aug 2006|11:47pm]

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[20 Feb 2006|06:21pm]


k i have a boy problem obviously ( sorry if its long). About a year ago i started liking this guy (Stuart) who worked at the supermarket around the corner from me, i hadn't always fancied him but he was always looking at me and after a while i started liking him too, i didn't know anything about him but he seemed nice and he'd always go red when i went to his checkout which i thought was cute and it pretty much carried on with us flirting but never saying anything except hello and goodbye when i went to his checkout.Anyway i still like him but abit less than before because he kept going from being casual and kind of ignoring me to flirting and making it obvious he liked me, and we still have never really talked to each other, i see him talking to other customers but he never talks to me.He does seem sort of shy, and i am too, which doesnt make it easy.But lately we haven't really been flirting as much,

And now the most embarassing thing has happened.....Collapse )
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[07 Feb 2006|05:58pm]


My problem isn't really that complicated but for me it is:

Ok so I really like this guy he's cute, smart, and really nice. Yesterday I had my friend go up to him and tell him "you know allie likes you." She said he didn't say anything he just sat there and smiled. So I'm wondering is it a possibility he likes me and how do I talk to him? I've been avoiding him for the past 2 days and now I can't b/c I have to see him tomorrow. thanks



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I really really really need advice [16 Jan 2006|10:34pm]

Ok. So. The last post I made on here was about a boy who seemed to like me but would never call so I'd always be the one to call him etc. You all advised me to not talk to him for a while and definitely not call him..so that's exactly what I did. And lo and behold, he called me last night. So he and his friend come over and this kid is being a complete flirt. Putting his hand on my knee while we were sitting on the couch, making me come closer to him, putting his head on my lap, talking aobut how we should go on a date here and there. At the end of the night when I walked them out he bent down and kissed me, twice.

NOW, i'm more confused than ever before. I don't know what to do. I thought for a while that I was finally done liking him and better off without him. He knows for a fact that I like him because I told him so a while back. I just don't know what to do now. I wish we still weren't talking because at least then I knew what was going on.

HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! What is he doing? What should I do?
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[26 Dec 2005|11:54pm]

okay, i have the biggest problem! really longCollapse )
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[02 Dec 2005|04:18pm]

Well I really have been having a problem with the fact of the obvious BOYS. I would like a boy and try to have something work out with them like for instance my friend Ryan. We both liked eachother and then all of a sudden it just stopped. I mean i know its highschool and all that jazz but woah it was just like one weekend passed and everything was different. I really want a relationship not something serious to start with but something innoccent and then to turn into something good. But everything i try to stay with the guy i like and make it turn into something more it never does.

Does anyone know something I should do to accually help things go further then friends and not just have everything dissapear like nothing even happened?

Please just some advice would mean the world.♥

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new boy alert [26 Nov 2005|12:56pm]
so, there's this reallllllly cute new boy at our school. he's from NY. i don't have any classes with him or anything, but i've seen him around and i know some things about him. i guess i can do the traditional get a friend to go up to him and tell him i think he's cute. probably is, everyone thinks he's cute. so, i'm not entirely sure they'd be down with it. what should i say to him myself? you know, so we can hit it off.
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please help..i really do need it [26 Nov 2005|11:15am]

So i haven't updated in this thing for awhile..but I need some girl's opinions..

There's this boy that i met at a party. Immediately I was attracted to him because he was everything i like..tall, adorable, shaggy hair, a surfer etc. Anyway, he gets my screen name and we talk online and then we hung out in person and we kissed! So the next night I ask if he wants to hang out and he said yeah..so when i called he said he'd think of somethign to do and call me after dinner. So i got all cute and whatever..and no call, at all. He's done that a lot. He says he'll call and just doesn't! And never offers any explanation! The problem is..I'm always asking him to hang out. That and the fact that he never calls. BUT when we DO hang out, when we say goodbye he kisses me on the lips (no makeout like the first night, but a kiss nonetheless).

SO! What on earth am i supposed to do? Sure i'm interested, but i'm really getting annoyed at his lack of calls and the fact that I'm always suggesting we hang out?

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[25 Nov 2005|11:45am]

GOsh I'm done with boys they can kiss my ass I'm so frustrated with them
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[24 Nov 2005|07:41pm]
in continuation to this entry ..

i actually have talked to him about it. i told him that we seem to have nothing to say anymore, i don't know what to say to him now and we're talking less than before and how i don't like it.

he said the same "hahaha" and "i don't know" thing as well as adding that he's a boring person which is why he has nothing to say. he also thinks it's because we have talked about everything there is talk about.

is that even POSSIBLE ?


therefore, translation: you are boring, as in you no longer interest me.

all i know is that usually we would be talking right now, but .... we're not. =(. i guess it really is over now !
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calling all girls ! [24 Nov 2005|12:34am]

we used to talk a loooott. insane thing was, it was over MSN (lame, i know) and we chilled in person now and then and long story short, i <3 him and he says he <3s me too. so it's supposed to be good ..

but a month later (now), we have nothing to talk about. really. other than "how are you, how was your day" we have zero communication even though i'm pretty sure i blabber on and on just about as much as i used to. his only comment is "hahaha" to everything i say. it's boring. i've tried little conversation starters, asking him questions, talking about things that leave room for his opinion, and NOTHING.

HE USED TO TALK, i swear. he used to ... say things and contribute things to the conversation other than "hahaha" and just. yeah. i don't know what to do and it makes me sad. because as soon as our conversations become unbearably boring, this 'thing' is over. it's long-distance, we fully RELY on communication to pull us though. when this 'thing' is over, it is going to suck. but even worse, when this 'thing' is over, we won't even be able to be friends like we used to BECAUSE THERE IS NOTHING TO TALK ABOUT.

worst case scenario: he's just not that into me anymore.

that sucks too, but i can deal. but i can't just let this die and shrivel up by itself: i need communication, i need verbal confirmation, and i just really want to be able to talk to him and hear him genuinely laugh for once.

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[25 Oct 2005|09:05am]
you know the old saying "if he insults you, he likes you". does that actually apply to us when we're in high school?
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[17 Oct 2005|09:51pm]

[ mood | annoyed ]

ok i dont know whats up with me. it seems like the only reason i want a guy is because i cant have him, or because someone else wants him. and then when we do get together i want to just break up. does this make me a slut or a bitch or something. i hate the fact that i make myself get all worked up over a guy im not gonna want in a day or two, or a guy who already has a girlfriend. do i sound like an awful person, because im not....unless it comes to boys i guess.

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HI all [14 Oct 2005|10:44pm]
[ mood | bored ]

Hi i'm new to this livejournal club and i think it's a cute idea... Boy's are diffently UGH sometimes lol :P but let's face it, they or some are just so cute that we just can't pass them up hah! anyway's i was reading some of the post and i can relate to alot of you.. I've recently developed a crush on this one guy i work with but erm he is not allowed to date out of his religon. which kind of stinks but i understand, i believe him to because him and his parents always come in the grocery store all dressed nice and such..... but that's life, when life holds you a lemon all you have to do is make some lemonaid. The only hard part is when we have a similar schedule and see each other around work.. at least for me its sort of akward so it's hard to play cool, now i'm just a total geek about the whole thing hah... Well look forward to chating with ya'all...

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[24 Sep 2005|10:22am]

I've had a crush on someone 2 grades older than me for about 3 weeks. I got up the courage to tell him that I think he's cute before my friends do because I'd rather have him hear it from me. He felt really flattered and all, and pretty soon most of the people I hang out with, including his sister, knows I kinda like him. But it seems like he didn't feel the same way, so I was blah the rest of the night. Then when I got home I decided to watch some late night t.v to get rid of the feelings, but my dad yelled at me cuz I was so late, so I locked myself in my room. Then here's the weird thing: I started crying, and didn't stop for like- an hour and a half. I don't really understand why, I've always thought my crush on this guy was nothing serious.

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[18 Aug 2005|04:05pm]

grrrr so this guy right he's so sweet to me sometimes but other times he ignores me. like he called me juicy once because i had on a juicy couture shirt and his shirt said A.Eagle so we just like took to calling each other that and that was our little thing so anyways i got a new one and wore it to school today and i showed it to him and he like didn't even say anything. but other times he's like hugging all over me and he (jokingly) calls me his girlfriend. WHAT am i supposed to think about him? everyone in his classes says that he's all over this other girl but he's usually all over me too!! grrrrrrrrrrr i like him a LOT.
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